In Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck (1937), Curley, the boss’s son, tries to intimidate Lennie, a simple-minded but physically strong worker. Curley uses aggressive tactics, verbally attacking Lennie to assert dominance and provoke a reaction. Curley’s approach is all about power, dominance, and coercion. He seeks to establish authority through threats and physical aggression rather than logical arguments or compromise. The emphasis on force, intimidation, and asserting one’s will over others exemplifies a negotiation style focused on power dynamics rather than consensus-building. Not uncommon in the U.S.
Faust
Faust by Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1808, 1832). In Faust’s pact with Mephistopheles, Faust, a scholar, is disillusioned with life and craves deeper meaning and fulfillment. Mephistopheles, the devil, offers to serve Faust in life in exchange for Faust’s soul in the afterlife.
The scene is structured like a contract negotiation, with both parties meticulously defining the terms and consequences. Mephistopheles is the classic hardball negotiator, pressing Faust to commit to a deal that appears advantageous but has dire consequences. Faust, in turn, tries to outwit him by adding specific conditions. The emphasis on structure, explicit terms, and legalistic language reflects the German preference for clearly defined agreements, logical arguments, and strict adherence to commitments.
Leverage
The American term Leverage conveys the concept of negotiation power and means to exert influence. It is culturally significant because it is consciously used to achieve favorable conditions, such as time pressure, alternatives, or status.
tense, direct, transactional
Breaking Bad (2008-2013) offers a darker portrayal of negotiation in a scene where Walter White negotiates with drug kingpin Gus Fring. White, who is initially outmatched, uses his knowledge of chemistry and the production process to assert leverage, ultimately positioning himself as an indispensable asset. The negotiation is tense, direct, and transactional, emphasizing the American focus on maximizing personal gain, even at the risk of escalating conflict.
Kulanz
The German term Kulanz conveys the concept of goodwill adjustment; voluntary concession without legal obligation. It is culturally significant because seen as a gesture of fairness, but not something to be expected.
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Pushback
Pushback. Resistance or objection. Unlike in some cultures where disagreement is downplayed, Americans may openly express pushback as a sign of engagement or assertiveness in negotations.
Common Ground
The American term Common Ground conveys the concept of finding shared interests or goals. It is culturally significant because it fosters relationship-building and cooperation.
Leveraging power
In The Godfather, Don Corleone exemplifies the American negotiation style through his strategic, power-driven approach to negotiation. In the iconic scene with the film producer Woltz, Don Corleone leverages his power to secure a film role for his godson. He calmly presents his request, positioning it as an offer Woltz cannot refuse. When Woltz initially rejects the proposition, Corleone escalates the pressure, using implied threats and leveraging his reputation to enforce compliance. The scene demonstrates the American focus on personal leverage, assertiveness, and strategic pressure.
“Wir machen keine halben Sachen”
Wir machen keine halben Sachen. We don’t do things by halves. In Germany, thoroughness and completeness are expected. Compromises that are perceived as half-hearted are considered unacceptable.