Den Dingen auf den Grund gehen. Translation: Get to the bottom of things. Meaning: Investigate thoroughly to understand the real reasons behind a conflict or problem.
The Broken Jug
Heinrich von Kleist – Der zerbrochne Krug (The Broken Jug, 1808). This classic play centers on a village court case in which a judge must determine who broke a jug belonging to a local woman. The entire plot revolves around the careful reconstruction of events, examination of evidence, and the search for truth through witness testimony and logical deduction. The play is a brilliant satire of the judicial process, but at its core, it exemplifies the German logic of conflict resolution: reconstructing causes, scrutinizing evidence, and striving for objective truth, even as human flaws complicate the process.
“Air your grievances.”
“Air your grievances.” Encourages openly expressing complaints or accusations, typically in a forum where all parties are present.
“Tell it to my face.”
“Tell it to my face.” Demands that criticism or accusations be made directly, not behind someone’s back.
“Let’s clear the air.”
“Let’s clear the air.” Suggests addressing conflict or misunderstanding openly, often in a group or face-to-face setting.
Judge and Procedure
Role of the Judge and Procedure: In German civil litigation, the judge plays an active, guiding role during oral hearings, often steering the process to avoid escalation. The court can propose settlement discussions and, if mediation is chosen, the mediator may meet with parties separately or together, depending on what is deemed most constructive. This flexibility allows for the avoidance of direct, adversarial exchanges.
in-court mediation
Mediation Models: There are several models of in-court mediation, including integration (mediator is a judge from the same court but not involved in the case), extension (mediator from another court), and outsourcing (external lawyer as mediator). All these models are designed to ensure impartiality and reduce the risk of direct confrontation, often involving separate interviews or caucuses with each party.
caucuses
Separate Interviews and Flexibility: Mediation sessions in Germany can involve joint meetings but also frequently include separate discussions (so-called “caucuses”) with each party. This allows the mediator to address sensitive issues privately, minimize escalation, and help parties express concerns without direct confrontation. The process is tailored to the needs of the parties, and mediators are trained to manage dynamics that could increase tension if parties were forced into direct, head-to-head exchanges.