When you engage French professionals, expect them to provide genuine guidance—not just execute your instructions. They’re trained to advise, recommend, and exercise professional judgment on your behalf.
This is what their expertise is for. A good French lawyer will tell you when your desired approach has legal problems; a good financial advisor will recommend against strategies they see as unwise; a skilled tradesperson will suggest better solutions than what you initially requested. Value this guidance rather than expecting pure compliance with your preferences. Deferring appropriately to professional judgment within their domain of competence isn’t weakness but recognition that you engaged them precisely because they know things you don’t.
At the same time, retain your ultimate decision authority—the professional advises, you decide. Providers who simply do whatever you ask without offering professional perspective are failing to provide the service you’re paying for. The ones who push back respectfully when they think you’re wrong are often the ones serving you best.