When Brazilians do give critical feedback, they frame it as coming from care. The message, sometimes stated explicitly, is: “I am telling you this because I care about your success.” This framing transforms criticism from attack to gift—from judgment to investment. The person delivering criticism positions themselves as your ally who wants you to succeed, not as a judge evaluating your worth.
When you receive criticism framed this way from Brazilian colleagues, understand that the care is genuine, not merely cosmetic. And when you need to criticize, make sure your care is real and communicable.
If you deliver criticism as cold assessment from detached authority, it will feel harsh and may damage the relationship. Connect the criticism to your genuine investment in the person’s success.