Brazilians accept that someone needs to have authority to make decisions—the boss, the parent, the person responsible. Clear authority prevents confusion and paralysis. But that authority is expected to be exercised through consultation, not unilateral command.
The leader who decides without hearing from those affected, without considering input, without genuine dialogue—that leader violates expectations about how decisions should work. This doesn’t mean consensus or democracy; the person with authority still decides. But they listen first, they consider what they hear, they acknowledge input even when deciding against it.
When you have authority in Brazil, use it through relational engagement. When you’re providing input to someone with authority, expect to be heard—and expect that hearing your input is genuine, not performance.