When giving feedback to Italian colleagues, protecting their dignity is not optional—it is the condition that makes feedback functional. Criticism that embarrasses, humiliates, or strips away someone’s composure will damage the relationship, often permanently, regardless of how valid the point was.
This means delivering critical feedback privately, framing it within the context of the relationship, and signaling that the criticism addresses a specific issue rather than the person’s fundamental worth. Italians are not fragile—they can handle direct, substantive feedback. But they need to receive it in conditions that preserve their sense of self and their social standing. Protect their dignity, and they will engage seriously with even difficult feedback. Violate it, and the feedback becomes irrelevant—all they will remember is the violation.