Brazilian conflict resolution often involves allowing time to pass rather than pressing for immediate resolution. Cooling-off periods let emotions subside and perspectives shift. Some conflicts that seem urgent in the moment become less important with time. Some resolve themselves as circumstances change.
Others become manageable once the heat has dissipated. The phrase ‘deixa pra la’ (let it go) captures this—rather than urgently pursuing resolution, release the conflict and see what happens.
This is not mere avoidance but strategic use of time as a resource. It requires tolerance for unresolved situations and trust that time helps.
If you are in conflict with Brazilians, do not assume immediate resolution is required. Allowing breathing room may serve everyone better than pressing for quick settlement when emotions are high.
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