Man muss das Kind beim Namen nennen. Literally to call a child by its name. Or, you have to call a spade a spade. Directness is highly valued in German negotiation culture. Unclear wording and vague statements are considered unprofessional. Instead, people expect you to clearly identify problems.
figures of speech
“Wir machen keine halben Sachen”
Wir machen keine halben Sachen. We don’t do things by halves. In Germany, thoroughness and completeness are expected. Compromises that are perceived as half-hearted are considered unacceptable.
“Shoot from the hip”
“Shoot from the hip.” To act or speak quickly without much preparation. While spontaneity and directness are valued in American culture, this approach can also come across as impulsive or risky.
“Gut Ding will Weile haben”
Gut Ding will Weile haben. Good things take time. Thoroughness and quality require time. This saying indicates that Germans are often suspicious when solutions are presented too quickly. Long-term, well-thought-out agreements take precedence over quick compromises.
“Get to the bottom line”
“Get to the bottom line.” To focus on the essential conclusion or price. This reflects the American preference for clarity, efficiency, and result-oriented communication in negotiation.
“Da müssen wir erst drüber nachdenken”
Da müssen wir erst drüber nachdenken. We’ll have to think about that first. Quick decisions are viewed with skepticism in Germany. It is customary for negotiating partners to request time for reflection before making a binding decision.
Fail a lot
“If you take on a lot, you can also fail a lot.” Mark Twain (1835-1910)