Johann Wolfgang von Goethe’s Wilhelm Meister’s Apprenticeship frequently touches on the importance of trust, personal responsibility, and the expectation that promises and agreements are to be fulfilled without external enforcement. Characters are judged by their reliability and ability to deliver on commitments.
Germans aren’t big on Small Talk
When my German girlfriend came here to New York years ago, she told me, “you are not going to believe this! I sat down at a cafe, and the waitress said ‘how are you?’ She didn’t even know me!” (a comment on YouTube)
So that’s why Germans are good at stuff, no bullshit, straight to the point. (another comment on YouTube)
This is by far my favourite episode right now. The lady with the grey sweater is HILARIOUS, she made me laugh out loud. But hey, why should we do small talk anyway? It’s a British concept and people are not obliged to conform themselves ! (yet another comment)
Interesting. Very insightful and helpful. I find that Germans sometimes feel uncomfortable talking with strangers. It appears to be the case in your video as well. But also it seems that the longer you talk to them the more comfortable and open they become. I suppose this is true anywhere you go but Germans appear to be a bit less interested in small talk. So I think persistence pays off when trying to start a conversation with Germans. (a great comment … persistence!)
sachlich bleiben
Sachlich bleiben. Literal translation: “Stay objective.” Meaning: Encourages people to remain neutral, factual, and unemotional, especially in discussions or when providing feedback.
choices and consequences
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe – Faust. In Faust, the protagonist’s journey is marked by deep introspection and a long process of weighing choices and consequences. Goethe’s narrative emphasizes the importance of reflection and patience before making life-altering decisions, warning against impulsive actions and highlighting the value of allowing time for understanding and wisdom to develop.
pause and reflect
Hermann Hesse – Siddhartha. The novel follows Siddhartha’s lifelong quest for enlightenment, during which he repeatedly pauses, reflects, and allows time to shape his decisions. Hesse’s narrative suggests that true wisdom and the right decisions come only with patience and the willingness to let things unfold naturally.
Swiss marksman
Friedrich Schiller – Wilhelm Tell. Schiller’s play, centered on the legendary Swiss marksman, highlights the importance of waiting for the right moment to act. The characters carefully consider their actions, resisting provocation and external pressure until the time is right, embodying the principle that patience leads to the best outcomes.
“Was gesagt ist, gilt.”
“What is said, counts.” Once something has been said and agreed upon, it stands and is valid.
Ulrich contemplates
Robert Musil – Der Mann ohne Eigenschaften (The Man Without Qualities): This modernist masterpiece is known for its intellectual depth and the protagonist’s reluctance to make hasty decisions. Musil’s Ulrich is a thinker who values contemplation and the suspension of judgment, reflecting the German ideal of allowing time and thoughtfulness to guide important choices.
“Vertrag ist Vertrag.
“A contract is a contract.” Agreements-whether formal or informal-are binding and must be honored as such.