A Return Worth Too Much

Ochūgen, the summer gift, thanks someone for their help, so it needs no return gift. If one is sent, an etiquette guide advises that it be of equal value or a little less. A return worth more than the gift received can be taken to mean: please send no more.

To decline openly, the guide suggests saying so in the thank-you letter, with words such as kongo wa okizukai naku, please do not trouble yourself in future.

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